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Gifts for the person who has everything

Someone who buys what they want as soon as they want it is genuinely hard to shop for, and the usual response — spending more — makes it worse. They can outspend you, so competing on price is a game you have already lost.

The gap is almost always a hobby they have talked about and not started. Buying the first step of something is a real gift to this person, because the barrier was never money; it was the deciding. The other reliable route is consumable and excellent, which cannot be stockpiled.

  1. Beginner Telescope

    around $130

    The clearest example of buying the first step. Nobody who has vaguely wanted to try this has bought one.

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  2. Belt-Drive Record Player

    around $150

    Works when there is already a shelf of records nobody plays.

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  3. Wooden Chess Set

    around $58

    An object rather than a device, which is scarce for someone with a lot of devices.

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  4. Watercolour Paint Set

    around $36

    Low stakes, low cost, and it gives them permission to be bad at something.

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  5. Speciality Coffee Sampler

    around $35

    Consumable and specific, so it cannot join the pile of things they already own.

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  6. Cocktail Making Set

    around $45

    For a good host. Aimed at what they do for other people rather than at them.

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  7. Sourdough Starter Kit

    around $42

    Demands time rather than money, which is the resource they are actually short of.

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This is the person whose one useful hint arrives in April and is gone by May. Bodhi is built around catching exactly that: text it in when it is said, and it is on the list months later.